Sunday, March 13, 2005

Person/Personality

What today I am talking about, may be cliche, but holds truth. When I am chatting with my friend, on some point she come very straight on hating a person, lets say some Mr X. I feel very surprise, a thought strikes me, how can you hate a person? Likes and dislike can be attributed to his/her distinct characteristics or habits. You can single out person's habits or characteristics, but its really impossible to hate person. If you ask any person why he likes or dislikes a person, reasons are always person's attributes. So why person should be blame on that. Anyone can comment on his/her habits and characteristics. He/she has full freedom to like or dislike anyone attributes but no right to comment on person.
May be I am trying to see individual and his/her personality differently. But this cliche solves lots of unbearable state of mind.